Working in secondary schools I have experienced the entitlement mentality of the society we live in played out in the attitudes of today's youth. With two kids of my own, my wife and I often discuss how to teach them properly and build a proper work-ethic within them. We live in a society that does not value anything that is good for us physically, mentally, emotionally, or spiritually. However, I am not blaming it. The society is a reflection of its people. I am not going to sit here and blog about the troubles that we have, because we already know what's wrong. I want to give you a solution to consider.
As a parent, I am going to do something that could revolutionize child-rearing for Americans. I am, with the help of my wife, going to take responsibility for the growth and development of my children mentally, emotionally, physically, and spiritually. We are not going to count on the schools for mental and emnotional development, we will not depend on organized sports to develop our kids physically, nor will we leave it in the hands of the Church to grow our children spiritually. I believe in the usefulness of these three institutions, but we have lost sight of the most important institution: THE FAMILY.
The family is at the heart of our society. Consider the state of our society and the state of families. How broken and shattered are we as we watch the divorce rate slowly rise above 50% and beyond? What is a child's first glimpse of what it means to be connected to another but in a family? What is a gang, but a sense of family that someone gets from outside of their biological connections. There is a definate formula for families that aides in the proper growth of children. The constants of this formula are love, stability, security, and trust. Everything else is a variable. When one of these constants is missing, then the family unit becomes off center. The more that are missing, the more off center and dysfunctional this family becomes. Most commonly, families have been missing trust and stability, which means that there is a 50% chance of survival.
I am not going to make an argument for or against gay marriage. But I will say that I have worked with some kids who will take two moms or two dads who want a family over their current situation. I worked with students who spend more time at their friend's house in order to feel the family connection they are missing in their home.
How do I practice what I preach?
We have a natural inclination to assign value to things, and to people. This guys is better than the next. This lady is prettier than the others. My dad can beat up your dad. The problem comes when we do this with our children. There are two important "why" questions that children ask that we are answering in the wrong way. When they ask why they have to do something we've asked them to do, we say, "because I'm your father, and I said so." When they ask why we love them, we give an infinite number of responses. This is backwards and damaging. Whatever the reason is that we give them for why we love them or show them affection is the reason that they will begin to think gives them worth. Therefore, when we tell them to do something, we need to have an infinite number of ways to explain why they need to do what we are telling them to do. When they ask why we love them, our response simply needs to be, "because I am your father, and I said so."
If there is nothing our kids have to do to earn love and affection, then there is nothing they can do to lose love and affection.
07 June 2010
03 June 2010
First Interview in the Bag
I feel very fortunate to have had an interview before finishing my student teaching and before getting into the unknown limbo that is the summer months. On Tuesday I had my first one, at Twin Falls Middle School, which is in the Snoqualmie Valley School District. It was for a position in their Life Skills Class, which I think is like a self-contained Special Education classroom. I don't know if I rocked the interview, but I feel pretty good about it, and the program sounds like a good situation for a new teacher starting out. I was able to learn that the class consists of four students with Autism Spectrum Disorder; two of them spend most of their time in the general population, and the other two spend most of their time in the Life Skills Classroom with their one-on-one aides. In all honesty, I hope that this position works out; it is a brand new school (build in 2008) in a district that has just passed a technology levy.
On the other hand, there is a position that I also applied for in the Tahoma School District, where I have been working the last couple years, and am currently finishing my student teaching. The position will split its time between the Personal Academic Instruction program on the Satellite Campus and the new Special Education Math classes at the high school. Tahoma is a great school district, and on of the better districts in the area. For this reason, I know that if I am able to somehow get into this district, it will be a hige blessing.
I hope to be able to land some more interviews, especially if Twin Falls or Tahoma do not work out. It would be nice to know what I'll be doing in September before the end of June. I'm just ready to get moving on this teaching career that I've been working towards for over four years.
On the other hand, there is a position that I also applied for in the Tahoma School District, where I have been working the last couple years, and am currently finishing my student teaching. The position will split its time between the Personal Academic Instruction program on the Satellite Campus and the new Special Education Math classes at the high school. Tahoma is a great school district, and on of the better districts in the area. For this reason, I know that if I am able to somehow get into this district, it will be a hige blessing.
I hope to be able to land some more interviews, especially if Twin Falls or Tahoma do not work out. It would be nice to know what I'll be doing in September before the end of June. I'm just ready to get moving on this teaching career that I've been working towards for over four years.
26 May 2010
Do Unions Make Education a Socialist System?
DISCLAIMER: I have only been in education for five years, and I don't fully understand unions, or the intricacies of the education system. Even though I plan to move into administration in the future, The following are the views of someone who does not claim to have the answers, nor do I claim to be right, but as a new teacher in the coming school year, I have some questions, and the effectiveness of a system can only be made better if we are able to discuss it openly.
My first expereince with the local union was my first Para Professional position I held from March - June 2005. When filling out my paperwork, I was told I had to signup for the union, and I had to pay them from my measly paycheck. My question was simply "why?"
For the next few years after that, the unions that I have had to become a part of have been relatively quiet; working in the background, keeping the places I work safe and clean for me to do my job the best I can. This is what I think a unnion should be; a big brother that tells the upperclassmen to leave me alone so I can concentrate on school and not getting my lunch money beaten out of me.
I have found a couple articles about unions, because I didn't want to be completely shooting this post from the hip. The first article is from the Economic Policy Institute, on "How unions help all workers." This article points out how unions give all workers - union and nonunion - better fringe benefits, medical insurance, pensions, and base wages. On this I will agree. Fringe benefits like paid leave, and a secured pension are things that young and new teachers may not consider as important until after they should. The article points out the incluence that unions have on helping nonunionized workers in the same industry. However, this may not apply to education, because it is all unionized.
The next article is on Education Oasis, and is simply called "On Unions and Education." As far as I can tell, the author is illustrating how education unions are slowing the education reform process, and taking drastic changes out of the hands of radicals. She explains how reformers are from far off of the frontlines of education; they deal with the theories and not the application. She says how unions are necessary to reform because they give the teachers the voice needed to be heard.
The last article is a short one on Change.org asking if unions deserve the bashing they receive. I will let the author explain their thesis in their own words:
But lots of folks out there seem to think the problem with the achievement gap isn't the poverty, the broken families, the guns and drugs in the streets, the minimum wage laws that make an honest job a path to poverty, the overcrowded classrooms and underfunded schools, the low-quality teachers attracted by the low-paying teacher salaries, the junk food and junk culture in the great middle-to-low socio-economic swath of America.
Nope. They seem to think it's all the fault of teacher unions.
Is it possible that unions are being misunderstood in their fight for the equality of the grunt soldiers on the frontlines?
Something esle that this article says about unions is, "So that's my prejudice: unions protect the working class from the owning class." The idea of protection is a two-way street. If I am being "protected" from the upper class, then the upperclass is, in turn, being protected from me. How does this translate? Unions are able to keep the middle-class from finding wealth, and by doing this, they keep the wealthy from finding the middle-class.
Consider that an employer with a high demand for a particular position may be willing to pay more for the right person to fill that place. The employee may get a signing bonus, and they will have high expectations placed on them to demonstrate that they deserve their bonus and new salary.
Consider a veteran employee who is being surpassed by the rest of their team; they are not attending the conferences that the others are, and their skills are falling behind their peers. They will be required to improve their skills and demonstrate that they are more qualified than those behind them in order to maintain their job.
Consider someone who shows themself to be an invaluable asset to a company through their ambition and drive for success within their first year of employment. What if someone with great potential was passed over because someone else happened to have been around longer than them, but may not be the best for the team?
Take these situations, and impose a Teacher union into the equation and you have two scenarios I've experienced and one that I would like to experience - a bidding war. My brother was able to negotiate from a temporaty contract position into the position he wanted because he had options, and because there was a demand for his skills and proven abilities. I do not have that option. An administrative team cannot add someone who will fit perfectly into their school's environment and collaborate with the learning team because someone with seniority decided that they wanted to work the position. This doesn't sound right, and it sounds like Affirmative Action.
Unions have their faults, and they have their advantages. But the problem with a system that creates a wage floor, is that it also creates a wage ceiling. So which is worse? If I don't mind making the minimum, then why would I try to excel?
My first expereince with the local union was my first Para Professional position I held from March - June 2005. When filling out my paperwork, I was told I had to signup for the union, and I had to pay them from my measly paycheck. My question was simply "why?"
For the next few years after that, the unions that I have had to become a part of have been relatively quiet; working in the background, keeping the places I work safe and clean for me to do my job the best I can. This is what I think a unnion should be; a big brother that tells the upperclassmen to leave me alone so I can concentrate on school and not getting my lunch money beaten out of me.
I have found a couple articles about unions, because I didn't want to be completely shooting this post from the hip. The first article is from the Economic Policy Institute, on "How unions help all workers." This article points out how unions give all workers - union and nonunion - better fringe benefits, medical insurance, pensions, and base wages. On this I will agree. Fringe benefits like paid leave, and a secured pension are things that young and new teachers may not consider as important until after they should. The article points out the incluence that unions have on helping nonunionized workers in the same industry. However, this may not apply to education, because it is all unionized.
The next article is on Education Oasis, and is simply called "On Unions and Education." As far as I can tell, the author is illustrating how education unions are slowing the education reform process, and taking drastic changes out of the hands of radicals. She explains how reformers are from far off of the frontlines of education; they deal with the theories and not the application. She says how unions are necessary to reform because they give the teachers the voice needed to be heard.
The last article is a short one on Change.org asking if unions deserve the bashing they receive. I will let the author explain their thesis in their own words:
But lots of folks out there seem to think the problem with the achievement gap isn't the poverty, the broken families, the guns and drugs in the streets, the minimum wage laws that make an honest job a path to poverty, the overcrowded classrooms and underfunded schools, the low-quality teachers attracted by the low-paying teacher salaries, the junk food and junk culture in the great middle-to-low socio-economic swath of America.
Nope. They seem to think it's all the fault of teacher unions.
Is it possible that unions are being misunderstood in their fight for the equality of the grunt soldiers on the frontlines?
Something esle that this article says about unions is, "So that's my prejudice: unions protect the working class from the owning class." The idea of protection is a two-way street. If I am being "protected" from the upper class, then the upperclass is, in turn, being protected from me. How does this translate? Unions are able to keep the middle-class from finding wealth, and by doing this, they keep the wealthy from finding the middle-class.
Consider that an employer with a high demand for a particular position may be willing to pay more for the right person to fill that place. The employee may get a signing bonus, and they will have high expectations placed on them to demonstrate that they deserve their bonus and new salary.
Consider a veteran employee who is being surpassed by the rest of their team; they are not attending the conferences that the others are, and their skills are falling behind their peers. They will be required to improve their skills and demonstrate that they are more qualified than those behind them in order to maintain their job.
Consider someone who shows themself to be an invaluable asset to a company through their ambition and drive for success within their first year of employment. What if someone with great potential was passed over because someone else happened to have been around longer than them, but may not be the best for the team?
Take these situations, and impose a Teacher union into the equation and you have two scenarios I've experienced and one that I would like to experience - a bidding war. My brother was able to negotiate from a temporaty contract position into the position he wanted because he had options, and because there was a demand for his skills and proven abilities. I do not have that option. An administrative team cannot add someone who will fit perfectly into their school's environment and collaborate with the learning team because someone with seniority decided that they wanted to work the position. This doesn't sound right, and it sounds like Affirmative Action.
Unions have their faults, and they have their advantages. But the problem with a system that creates a wage floor, is that it also creates a wage ceiling. So which is worse? If I don't mind making the minimum, then why would I try to excel?
24 May 2010
Itching to be Done!!!
I am down to my last the weeks of my student Teaching Internship. This means that I'm 75% done with it. I have submitted an application to ten surrounding school districts, and am just itching to get the process moving towards next year. At this point, i have applied to the following school districts: Bellevue, Federal Way, Highline, Issaquah, Lake Washington, Northshore, Renton, Snoqualmie Valley, Tahoma, and Tukwila. I'm excited to move to a new city and find a new rental home. I'm excited to organize and arrange my own classroom, I'm excited to start doing what I've been in school for. I'm ready. Ready to connect to students, ready to spurr learning, ready to manage behaviors. I'm like the annoying football player in the coaches ear saying "Put me in coach! I'm ready!" Well, I am.
12 May 2010
Teaching Style: Stick to my Guns
I have been told by people that I would make a great teacher. The question in my head is are they just being nice? And why would I? Consider the following post a mission statement of the kind of teacher I will be. I am smart enough to know that this post can be taken in a negative way. I do have a stubborn streak in me, but I am willing to indulge both sides and points of view as long as others are willing to see mine as well. Please read the whole post and even the other post that is referred to at the end, it will give you a clearer idea of how I am focused on student success. The following is a discussion question for my LAST MAED class!
Provide an example of ineffective instructional decision-making. Using your example, describe what you would do to make it effective.
I would have to say that I experienced this in a situation I had earlier this year. I have only been working with SpEd kids since 2005, and as I've learned more and more and worked with them more and more, I have had a knack for not diagnosing their disabilities, but creating a plan of action to head them towards their IEP goals. I had an administrative/logistical mind. Anyways, a new student arrives to the self-contained SpEd class at the HS, and I am hired earlier this year to help work with him; me and another lady. We don't have much info on him, and he's from out of the district. We did not have a lot of information on him, and the information we did have on him, I was unwilling to take as completely true; if the program he was in was so good, his single-mom would not have moved him to my district for our schools. So, we were told that he does not walk, he may not walk, and he has a short attention span. The scientific side of me wanted to test to see if these statements were true, but only one was. That statement was that he does not walk.
So what was at the root of this student's disabilities, and what will it take for him to be successful? The teacher I work with (who is younger than me, but I didn't see that as an issue) felt that the important thing was to get him heading towards his academic IEP goals. She and the other lady that worked with the student spent time trying to get him to write, and count, and stay on task, but he would not; he would hit them and pull their hair. I didn't see this student as a case for academic growth... not yet. He was a behavior student, and I treated him as such. They told me he does not walk, but that didn't mean he couldn't. We started going on walks in Oct, and I wouldn't let him fall to the ground and crawl like he's been used to. By November he was walking upstairs by himself, after Christmas he was walking down and upstairs by himself. In January he was out of his braces and in tennis shoes, in February we were walking around the track, and before I left in March to do my student teaching we were walking with 15 and 20 pound weights. Now he does not bring his wheel chair to school, and rides the bus in a seat, and the other lady still working with him said he's much easier to work with.
Where is the ineffective instruction decision-making? It was how to get this student to be successful. The teacher disagreed with me, and she and the other lady tried to get me to deviate from what I was doing with him. I'm not trying to say I was right and they were wrong, but I think my process was more effective, because I saw behavior issues that they did not, and I chose to address those first.
Here's a posting I put on my blog from back in January: http://lifeonsped.blogspot.com/2010/01/he-just-responds-to-you.html
Provide an example of ineffective instructional decision-making. Using your example, describe what you would do to make it effective.
I would have to say that I experienced this in a situation I had earlier this year. I have only been working with SpEd kids since 2005, and as I've learned more and more and worked with them more and more, I have had a knack for not diagnosing their disabilities, but creating a plan of action to head them towards their IEP goals. I had an administrative/logistical mind. Anyways, a new student arrives to the self-contained SpEd class at the HS, and I am hired earlier this year to help work with him; me and another lady. We don't have much info on him, and he's from out of the district. We did not have a lot of information on him, and the information we did have on him, I was unwilling to take as completely true; if the program he was in was so good, his single-mom would not have moved him to my district for our schools. So, we were told that he does not walk, he may not walk, and he has a short attention span. The scientific side of me wanted to test to see if these statements were true, but only one was. That statement was that he does not walk.
So what was at the root of this student's disabilities, and what will it take for him to be successful? The teacher I work with (who is younger than me, but I didn't see that as an issue) felt that the important thing was to get him heading towards his academic IEP goals. She and the other lady that worked with the student spent time trying to get him to write, and count, and stay on task, but he would not; he would hit them and pull their hair. I didn't see this student as a case for academic growth... not yet. He was a behavior student, and I treated him as such. They told me he does not walk, but that didn't mean he couldn't. We started going on walks in Oct, and I wouldn't let him fall to the ground and crawl like he's been used to. By November he was walking upstairs by himself, after Christmas he was walking down and upstairs by himself. In January he was out of his braces and in tennis shoes, in February we were walking around the track, and before I left in March to do my student teaching we were walking with 15 and 20 pound weights. Now he does not bring his wheel chair to school, and rides the bus in a seat, and the other lady still working with him said he's much easier to work with.
Where is the ineffective instruction decision-making? It was how to get this student to be successful. The teacher disagreed with me, and she and the other lady tried to get me to deviate from what I was doing with him. I'm not trying to say I was right and they were wrong, but I think my process was more effective, because I saw behavior issues that they did not, and I chose to address those first.
Here's a posting I put on my blog from back in January: http://lifeonsped.blogspot.com/2010/01/he-just-responds-to-you.html
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